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Gerald's avatar

It’s only by happy accident that I married a non-Western foreign woman who happened to be “anti-feminist,” as we would call it, which means pro-19th century genuine 1st-wave feminism, but anti-1960’s style 2nd-wave “feminism.”

I met my Japanese wife in university in France in ‘94-‘95.

… I’ve seen enough international marriages to know that if the failed Western romances and/ or failed first marriage were the man’s fault, then he’ll screw up the international romance & marriage too. He’ll choose a woman of bad character who will ruin his life back home in the US, or he’ll choose a good one but then ruin *her* life back in the US 😂

That said, the inescapable dilemma facing Western men is that there simply aren’t enough traditional women (1st-wave genuine feminists) to go around, not even for the churchgoers; most churchgoers are totally duped by the double-income lifestyle. If a Western man desires a stay-at-home mom for the children, his best option might be an overseas wife who’s willing to be a mom on just his humble salary stateside.

But he has to know how to play Dating Game already. He has to be a valuable man & a desirable man already in the West before throwing his hands up in despair. That’s the **key**, and I bet the dating sites don’t make this point clear to either the Western men or the prospective wives.

Anthony S Burkett's avatar

They forgot to mention "15 minute" in their Floating City... Or did they just not want to make mention of the similarity (exactness)?

WRT "Passport Bros"... I guess 'The American Woman' can be terrifying to a modern-day Metro-Sexual Male with no balls... and the most terrifying aspect of the American woman is that they appear to be sick and tired of 'The Average American Man'... :D

You GO Girls!!!... You Bad-Ass American Women You! :)

Blewn0se Hermitage's avatar

The wealthy have always built castles.